Ernie and I used to always be paired up to read the first and second readings at wedding, anniversary and quinceañera Masses. It started when we were 12 and 11 years old, respectively. We both read scripture for the Old Testament and Papá Chepe and Mamá Toni’s 50th wedding anniversary Mass.

The last time we read together was at our cousin Tony’s wedding in August 2002. We joked about always being paired up, partners in crime. Well, not really.

Ernie has a new lifelong partner. On Saturday he and Tamara said their vows in front of numerous friends and family members and later celebrated it with a mariachi and the dollar dance.

Something stuck out about Ernie’s wedding. Perhaps I’ve never been close enough to the bride and groom to notice, but Ernie and Tamara looked different. I haven’t known Tamara too long, but I grew up with my cousin and we’re fairly close. I had never seen him look the way he did on Saturday as he looked at Tamara and said his vows. The best way I can describe it was simply a natural love high. Another aunt said it looked as if someone had given them love pills.

It was rather sweet.